Adjusting To New York City

November 19, 2009|By Shira Poliak, Barnard College/ Weinbaum Yeshiva High graduate

The band My Bare Hands describes New York City as "the place I call my home."

Like the band, I was excited to make New York City home when I chose to attend college in the Big Apple.

My first two months in the city, however, proved that adjusting to city-living after living in Florida my entire life is more challenging than I imagined.

For one, people in New York are a lot less friendly than most Floridians. Running in Riverside Park or strolling down Broadway, I have learned that, unlike Floridians, many New Yorkers don't say hi to strangers, let alone give them a smiling gaze.

While this seems like a minor detail, I was raised to be friendly. The unfriendliness irks me, and I have to control my natural instinct to wave and say hello to people I see.

Additionally, the fast-paced lifestyle of New York City demands adjusting. New Yorkers move fast. Really fast.

The city operates at an accelerated, sprinting speed -- business people zoom by on their way to work, and people are always on the go.

Being in a fast-paced university in a fast-paced city forces me to accelerate my speed so I can be an engaging member of my university and city, while finding ways to relax and maintain my sanity.

Before starting college, I thought I would have a lot of time to explore New York's cultural resources while meeting my academic demands.

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While the e-mails I receive from Columbia advertising discount Broadway shows tempt me, the demands of my rigorous coursework, the pressures of an intense academic environment, and the demands I put on myself to do well academically place my desire to explore the city's rich cultural and intellectual resources on hold.

Adjusting to New York City has been harder than I thought. But I do not regret my decision to migrate northward.

While balancing my academics and social and cultural interests requires time, patience and creativity, once I do so, I hope to experience the richness the city offers.

I don't know how long it took for My Bare Hands to call New York City home. I hope there is room and time for me.

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