I am Melissa Etheridge. This Is M.E., Ask Me Anything!

Frajer · 2014-10-03T09:51:18-07:00

has anyone ever said " come to my window " to you at a fast food restaurant drive thru?

The_Fiddler1979 · 2014-10-03T09:48:08-07:00

Do you still get a real kick out of playing songs that have been with you so long like "Bring me some Water?" (Awesome rock history song btw!)

jonemillard · 2014-10-03T09:51:43-07:00

What has been your strangest fan encounter?

thegroovyanon · 2014-10-03T09:49:39-07:00

Hello and welcome to Reddit! Are you a Star Wars fan? Have you met any of the cast at parties etc.?

InfernalWedgie · 2014-10-03T09:47:59-07:00

You seem to be burnin' alive. Can I bring you some water?

Seriously, though, I think right now is a great time for female singers-songwriters. Are there any ladies who have caught your attention? Anyone you might want to collaborate with in the near future?

potatohats · 2014-10-03T09:55:31-07:00

Melissa, huge fan. Thank you for helping a scared 13 year old lesbian get through her junior high school years alive. You were a rock for me, and rocked for me :) I always thought "if she can be out and survive in the public eye, it's possible for anyone!". Anyways, thanks for being brave. Oh, I forgot to ask a question. Is it true that you make awesome pancakes?

hypeheist · 2014-10-03T09:47:52-07:00

Big fan Melissa! Would you ever sing or tour with another female rocker? Would love to see you sing with Sass Jordan the two best ever!!!

chachapoof · 2014-10-03T09:51:25-07:00

hi Melissa! considering your great covers of "piece of my heart" and "refugee" would you ever do a covers cd and if so what songs would you do?

greylenkitty · 2014-10-03T09:56:26-07:00

Melissa, your music is so important to me. Words cannot express how song of the songs have helped me through the worst times in my life. I adore "Monster" from the new CD the most. Many questions.. but I'll pick one... Tell us about the song "Unusual Kiss"? BTW, Your Little Secret is such an underrated album.

courtiebabe420 · 2014-10-03T09:44:09-07:00

Hi Melissa! Thanks for doing this AMA!

Who have been your biggest influences over the years, and do you find that they change as your career progresses?

Enjoy the AMA!

JoshuaNapier · 2014-10-03T09:49:39-07:00

Hey Melissa! So, are we gonna get a video for "Monster"? You know, you as Nancy Archer in "Attack of the 50 Ft Lesbian?" That would be awesome!! Super Man Fan here LOVING the new record!

Melissa_Etheridge · 2014-10-03T09:50:29-07:00

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tracykate24 · 2014-10-03T09:51:48-07:00

Hi Melissa, are there any plans for the box set to be released?

ninjabarbie79 · 2014-10-03T09:48:53-07:00

Hi Melissa. Thank you for doing this. Your music has played a huge roll in my families lives. My mother recently met you in Vermont. My daughter sang your song "sleep while I drive" yesterday for her solo at school. What is some advice you would give to her in regards to her dream of being a singer?

Johnzsmith · 2014-10-03T09:49:02-07:00

What are some of the artists you are listening to at the moment? Anyone on the verge of getting big?

ThroughTheRain · 2014-10-03T09:55:37-07:00

Hey, Melissa! I'm a huge fan of yours from Finland, but I'm currently living in the UK. So, MY QUESTION IS, are you planning on doing a tour/any concerts in Europe in the near future? Particularly in England? Thank you for rocking on and being true to yourself. You just keep getting more amazing and gorgeous every passing year! Lots of love from both me and my girlfriend.

pancak3s · 2014-10-03T09:49:53-07:00

Do you ever think true musicians which fit into not so mainstream categories such as rock/metal will ever correctly be portrayed by the mass media? Prime example, Lorde won best ROCK video and pretty much everyone at a certain XM channel looked at it as a joke and misrepresentation of the industry and professionals who actually deserve the recognition

orangejulius · 2014-10-03T09:47:22-07:00

How stoked were you when the Perry decision came down from SCOTUS?

Any plans to do more LGBT activism on the horizon?

Who was your greatest musical influence?

ceejthesiege · 2014-10-03T09:49:33-07:00

Hi Melissa! So happy you're doing a AMA. My question is what would it take to get your tour to stop in Alaska? I've always wanted to see you in concert.

Just4Fun01 · 2014-10-03T09:51:47-07:00

Hi Melissa! I am a big fan of your entire catalogue and I think the new album is killer! I actually have a fan club question. Members of the fan club get first dibs on tickets but according to seniority. This means that members with 20+ years usually buy out the M&G tickets and first few rows. This has always been so disappointing to me as a younger fan. Do you worry that catering to long time members is not nourishing a relationship with a younger/newer fan base? Also, please do a CD signing some day! ;) Love from NY.

Rudkuss · 2014-10-03T09:54:33-07:00

Hi Melissa, would you ever consider listening to one of my songs? And, if so how would I go about getting it to you? Would love you feedback. Love the new album! You Rock!

mrethridge · 2014-10-03T10:21:04-07:00

Melissa,

Thank you so much for making our last name so recognizable.It's truly a name of beauty and power. The only problem is that we spell it slightly differently, which leads to people constantly spelling my name wrong.

Before you were famous, would people spell your name 'Ethridge' very often?

dragonfly1993 · 2014-10-03T09:47:48-07:00

what's your favorite snack?

sw337 · 2014-10-03T09:56:03-07:00

What was your first "Wow I'm famous" moment?

scififan1866 · 2014-10-03T09:56:12-07:00

Have your new album on repeat for the last 2 days! My new favorite song is "Favorite Song"! How did you choose who to collaborate with on this new album? Quite a range! :)

itsyogirlsusan · 2014-10-03T10:12:56-07:00

Favorite inspirational quote?

OldSchoolDM · 2014-10-03T12:11:18-07:00

Melissa, thank you for doing an AMA! I heard you this week on Howard Stern and had two questions:

How hard is it to prepare your voice to sing so early in the morning?
How was it being interviewed by Howard? From a listener's perspective, he does great interviews!

VaporsVaporizer · 2014-10-03T09:51:52-07:00

Hey Melissa , where's the one place you've never played a gig that's on your bucket list ?

lifeasasexeducator · 2014-10-03T09:56:11-07:00

Melissa, I saw you in Chicago in June with the Symphony and you ROCKED! Do you have any plans to come to the South Bend, IN/Notre Dame area?

eat_me_now · 2014-10-03T09:56:23-07:00

Will you be doing a tour for your new album? Come to Pittsburgh! Come to my window is one of my favorite songs to belt out when I'm alone. It pops into my head now and then at random times and I love singing it.

TiggerATD · 2014-10-03T09:52:21-07:00

Do you track your setlists or do you just "wing it" each time? Looking forward to seeing you in Durham ;-)

cirrocco · 2014-10-03T09:56:21-07:00

Hey, ME! Thanks for being here today. I am a big fan of your music and my good friend, DeAnna is an even bigger fan of yours. Today is DeAnna's 50th birthday and I am sure she would be over the moon if you gave her a shout out. We both have questions for you. DeAnna wants to know how has aging and maturing influenced your work? My question is: Will you be calling into Randi Rhodes' radio show if/when she returns to the air? Thanks for being my Rock Goddess!

CobraCornelius · 2014-10-03T09:56:52-07:00

Melissa, Thank you so much for doing this AMA. It is an absolute honor to have an Academy Award Winner with us today. I have two questions for you: 1- What was it like to be at the Oscars? Can you tell us anything cool about being in the same building as all of those stars?

2- In your songs you are always asking us to do things like Come to your window or to bring you some water, is there anything else that I can do for you?

Thank you very much for all of the inspiring music you have given us over the years.

mitchkramer · 2014-10-03T09:57:35-07:00

Hi Melissa,

What's the matter with Kansas?

Sherpa514 · 2014-10-03T09:58:15-07:00

Love your new cd! When fans leave letters or items on stage at a concert do you get them?

carolhowel · 2014-10-03T10:00:00-07:00

What is your favorite color?

angie_wormy · 2014-10-03T10:00:38-07:00

How do you decide what single to release on the radio? How has that process changed now that you're an independent artist?

smilesunshine0925 · 2014-10-03T10:02:49-07:00

Hi Melissa, Love your music !

My mother used to sing "I'm the Only One" to me when I was a child. It became one of our songs to sing whenever it was on in the car. I still sing it now and think of her if we're not together. It's my favorite song of yours (Come to My Window is second). What was the inspiration for I'm the Only One?

Melissa_Etheridge · 2014-10-03T10:05:27-07:00

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gqfarris · 2014-10-03T10:39:47-07:00

Thank you for doing this Melissa. I've a HUGE fan!! I love your music. I've seen you in concert 2x, the 2nd time i dragged my husband to it and became an instant fan. I find your music to be very empowering on love and strength. When you're having a bad day where do you draw your strength from?

jaymackey · 2014-10-03T10:46:02-07:00

Hey Melissa! LOVE the new album! I have to give you a shout out for the bonus track What I Do! So funky, unexpected, and easily one of my favorites. But I have a question about another one of the bonus tracks for This Is M.E., Saturday Dancing. What inspired the Cher-like turn at the end of the song? I did not expect it at all but it's quickly become a stand out moment of the album. Thanks, Jay!

Bambeno · 2014-10-03T13:15:38-07:00

When are your fellow Leavenworthians going to get to see you perform again?

itsyogirlsusan · 2014-10-03T09:57:45-07:00

What's YOUR favorite track on This is M.E. ?

Foncha83 · 2014-10-03T10:01:11-07:00

First of all, I have been listening to your music since I was a child (my mother would always play it) My favorite song (the one that just fills me with joy) is DANCE WITHOUT SLEEPING..... Melissa, I must ask, have you ever considered touring central america (Costa Rica primarily)??

tracykate24 · 2014-10-03T10:01:50-07:00

How are you enjoying the ability to reach out to your fans in social media? Do you feel this is helping you further your fan-base?

Jiggythejew · 2014-10-03T10:02:34-07:00

can you come to my window M.E.? rock on, the dotcommiez love you.

Genevieve_Nolet · 2014-10-03T10:05:44-07:00

How did you feel seeing all those pictures of us "at home" #ThisIsMe yesterday?

GirlGeekInFL · 2014-10-03T10:07:28-07:00

Melissa, it is both a pleasure and an honor. You have been a role model to me my whole life and I have always wondered, what was your biggest challenge coming out as a lesbian professionally?

Rainbowbiz · 2014-10-03T10:07:50-07:00

Hey Melissa, thank you so much for bringing out this amazing new album! We have it now in the UK! We participated in the Google hangout with you and other LGBTQ activists in January for the Uprising of Love movement. You inspired us to change direction in our business. Are you still in conversations with leaders and activists to change opinions and lives of LGBT people in our communities?

missy070203 · 2014-10-03T10:08:17-07:00

Hi Melissa! Big fan!... One question. If you had to choose just one song of everything you've ever recorded as your absolute fav. What would it be and why?

Thank you!

optimisticspark · 2014-10-03T10:08:48-07:00

Melissa I love your music and I still love telling the story about having a brief chat during your 2006 Toronto show.

What is your all time favourite love song?

drocks27 · 2014-10-03T10:11:03-07:00

Ms Etheridge

I just want to thank you for being so courageous and coming out when you did. I was in middle school dealing with a religious family and having a secret girlfriend and we both were just moved by your songs.

Do you think it is easier for Artists to come out today or is there still a lot of pressure to stay in the closet?

evanssu1 · 2014-10-03T10:11:22-07:00

Would love to see you come to Savannah, Ga. for the Susan G Komen race one year. My partners daughter is a 2 time survivor and big fan of yours. Any plans on doing the Komen in Savannah? PS, Loved your piece with Sheryl Crow in this months AARP by the way!

carolhowel · 2014-10-03T10:12:46-07:00

Do you ever have day where you just dont feel like going to work but you put a great concert on all the time if so how do you push yourself. Through cause you rock evey concert?

ssteff812 · 2014-10-03T10:13:05-07:00

Will you ever play the AC/DC song You shook me all night long? I heard you in the early 90's when you sang it. I haven't heard you sing it since.

joevich · 2014-10-03T10:15:33-07:00

just wanted to say hi! i knew jano m. when she was in philly many many moons ago! can't wait to see you in philly again!!! i see you listed your musical inspirations, but who/what inspires you in life? how do you keep on keepin' on?

greylenkitty · 2014-10-03T10:19:42-07:00

Ok I lied...another question... my love for Your Little Secret as an album got me thinking of the song I can't listen to often as I cry whenever I hear it... "This War Is Over"... it is my song for my beloved friends and family who have passed on... who/what originally inspired this song?

Escape92 · 2014-10-03T10:20:48-07:00

I just wanted to say your music and your story massively helped me when I was struggling with coming out, and I actually went to your concert (alone) when you came to the UK during that period.

Will you come back to the UK sooner than the (apparently) 21 years it was between visits last time?!

greylenkitty · 2014-10-03T10:23:07-07:00

Oh oh oh...ENORMOUS love for the song "Secret Agent"-- a sex toy reference and a Star Trek reference in the same lyric? WIN. I love your use of unusual words and word play overall.. I mean who else uses "ecclesiastic" anymore? To add a question.. do you like Star Trek?

QueenCoyote · 2014-10-03T10:23:16-07:00

So I know this is a silly question (statement and question), but...

When I'm having a rough day for whatever reason, I listen to some of your songs and they often make me feel better. Thank you for that, first of all.

What do you do to make yourself feel better if you're having a bad day?

Melissa_Etheridge · 2014-10-03T10:23:18-07:00

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carolhowel · 2014-10-03T10:23:21-07:00

Do you think you will make more albums and tour after this one?

smikmaisey · 2014-10-03T10:28:32-07:00

Would you PLEASE PLEASE come back to Kansas for a tour? We're in Southeast KS and you haven't played anywhere near us in YEARS....

bananafish711 · 2014-10-03T10:30:13-07:00

Thank you so much for doing this AMA. Your music has been inspiring and healing over the years. As a yoga teacher, I share songs or poems with my students sometimes as part of our meditation practice. Often when I read your work or play a song, people approach me after class and ask who the writer/singer was. You write and express yourself in a way that reaches a lot of different hearts and minds, and I think that is very special.

I would like to know if there are any songs or artists that you find especially meditative and peaceful when you're trying to calm your mind or focus. What brings stillness and quiet to you amid the hustle and bustle?

MMOGal · 2014-10-03T10:32:52-07:00

I am a 10 year breast cancer survivor and share your journey in life and feel somewhat a kindred soul with you. What has been the single most satisfying moment since your diagnosis?

carolhowel · 2014-10-03T10:34:53-07:00

What made you start your own record company and radio station?

indesignkat · 2014-10-03T10:35:15-07:00

I fell in love with your music after seeing "Where the Day Takes You", especially 'Precious Pain' and 'You Can Sleep While I Drive', which still causes me to tear up every time I hear it. How did you get involved with that movie?

tracykate24 · 2014-10-03T10:35:51-07:00

Would you ever do as The Boss did during one of his tours and play an album cover to cover during a show?

Sick-n-Wrong · 2014-10-03T10:36:33-07:00

Congrats on your cancer warrior attitude and being cancer-free! I participate in the American Cancer Society Making Strides Against Breast Cancer and our team name is "Brave & Crazy" in your honor :). My best friend is fighting the disease now - and my mother has it - but at her age has decided to let nature take it's course. #ThisIsMe

Did you always see yourself beating cancer or was there a time where you feared the beast would win?

KristenD507 · 2014-10-03T10:36:59-07:00

Do you have the painting I did for you? I won my first Meet & Greet on July 4th, 2008 at Borgata in A.C, with you. It was my wife & I, and one other couple from a radio station. I'm a professional artist and I did a painting of you... You asked if I wanted you to sign it, I said, "No, it's for you". My wife seems to think that you didn't even know it was a painting... because, it was that good. LOL. I'm just curious, what became of it, do you have it? Everyone asks me about it!

NeinNyet · 2014-10-03T10:45:39-07:00

Hi Melissa. Question. My theme song, your voice to it. Chrome Plated Heart. Was that about someone in particular or just life?

Just wanted to say hi again. I met you after a show in Dallas (Bronco Bowl i think) just before Brave and Crazy came out. I was truly star struck that night. It was the first time i'd seen you perform. I still think about watching your show, it was amazing.

dawgktn · 2014-10-03T09:57:37-07:00

Hi Melissa, I was wondering why only Target got the 4 bonus tracks. I pre-ordered my copy, not knowing that Target was getting the bonus tracks.I am off of work sick and cannot afford to buy it. Can't you make them available to those of us who pre-ordered as a special download?

richardwrinkle · 2014-10-03T10:04:13-07:00

Would it be okay if I came to your window? Crawled inside and waited by the light of the moon?

CinematicCharm · 2014-10-03T10:02:46-07:00

Do you think you would be the artist you are today if you hadn't attended Berklee? How did Berklee help you or change you?

Melissa_Etheridge · 2014-10-03T10:18:42-07:00

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Gelsie · 2014-10-03T10:21:29-07:00

Hey Melissa. I've been a fan for years and for the past few albums you've put out I've gone and waited outside of TV studios, etc to see you and you don't seem to stop for fans anymore. Why is that? Did you have a bad experience that scared you from stopping? Please consider it in the future!

ssteff812 · 2014-10-03T10:23:06-07:00

Would you ever consider coming back to Albany, NY every year?

ThroughTheRain · 2014-10-03T10:30:02-07:00

Is there an address we can send fan mail to?

itsyogirlsusan · 2014-10-03T10:31:45-07:00

Will there be a possibility of a M&G for the Europe tour next year?

RandomTasked · 2014-10-03T10:32:54-07:00

If you could come out with an album full of covers, which songs would be on it?

LadyScorpioDL · 2014-10-03T10:34:19-07:00

Bought newest CD yesterday. Love it! My question is about your diet. Do you follow a more Alkaline diet and what percentage of alkaline foods do you try to get in everyday?

jacobz13 · 2014-10-03T10:37:54-07:00

How did you explore/create your version of St. Jimmy in American Idiot? Was it really different to be on stage actually playing a character?

Genevieve_Nolet · 2014-10-03T10:42:17-07:00

Your new song "A little bit of me" is so inspiring and fuelling and grounding and the rhythm and sound absolutely energizing (I LOVE IT), can you talk about where/how the song came about (creative process)? Was there a specific message you were going for? Did it just come through you without premeditated efforts?

carolhowel · 2014-10-03T10:49:08-07:00

Do you have copies of all your meet and greet pics ?do you save them to look back on?

jamacianbagpipemetal · 2014-10-03T10:49:17-07:00

Why does love hurt?

tracykate24 · 2014-10-03T10:49:27-07:00

I know you are on a healthy path, but do you exercise regularly? What kind of exercise do you do?

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